Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Food for thought (1)

While waiting for a train in India, a missionary got into a conversation with a high-caste Indian. "Are you travelling on the next train?" the missionary asked. "No," he replied, "that train has only third-class carriages. It's all right for you, because you are a Christian. Third class doesn't degrade you and first class doesn't exalt you. You are above these distinctions, but I have to observe them."

A nature lover found a lovely avenue of trees. As he walked admiringly up and down the avenue, he noticed a strange thing. Two of the trees were dead, and not only dead, but dismally and evilly offensive. Frost could not account for it as their neighbours were all healthy. He made inquiries, and found out that the gas main which ran underneath them had been leaking! Everything on the surface had been in their favour - the sea breezes, sunshine, rain ... but they had been poisoned from beneath. There are many people like that. Perhaps we are one of them. The circumstances of our lives all seem in our favour. Yet beneath that our lives are mysteriously blighted by thoughts that poisoned us.

An old Italian gentleman lived alone in New Jersey . He wanted to plant his annual tomato garden, but it was very difficult work, as the ground was hard. His only son, Vincent, who used to help him, was in prison. The old man wrote a letter to his son and described his predicament. A few days later he received a letter from his son: ‘Don’t dig up that garden. That’s where the bodies are buried. At 4 a.m. the next morning, FBI agents and local police arrived and dug up the entire area without finding any bodies. They apologized to the old man and left. That same day the old man received another letter from his son: ‘Dear Papa, Go ahead and plant the tomatoes now. That’s the best I could do under the circumstances.’

A father, trying to encourage his teenage son after he had failed an examination, said, "Don’t give up, try again." "What's the use?" said the son. "It's easier to quit." His father remonstrated with him, saying, "The people who are remembered in life are the people who, when they failed, didn't give up, but tried again." He went on, "Remember Churchill? Remember Thomas Edison? They didn't give up!" The boy nodded. His father went on, "Remember John McCringle?" "Who is John McCringle?" the boy asked. "You see," said the father, "you don't remember him - he gave up." A poster showed a picture of a man sitting on a park bench looking depressed and disconsolate. His arms were folded across his chest, and there was a look of resignation on his face. The caption read, "I give up."

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Layman's Ten Commandments


1] Prayer is not a "spare wheel" that you pull out when in trouble, but it is a "steering wheel" that directs the right path throughout.


2] Why a Car's WINDSHIELD is so large & the Rear view Mirror is so small? Because our PAST is not as important as our FUTURE. So, Look Ahead and Move on.


3] Friendship is like a BOOK. It takes few seconds to burn, but it takes years to write.


4] All things in life are temporary. If going well, enjoy it, they will not last forever. If going wrong, don't worry, they can't last long either.


5] Old Friends are Gold! New Friends are Diamond! If you get a Diamond, don't forget the Gold! Because to hold a Diamond, you always need a Base of Gold!


6] Often when we lose hope and think this is the end, GOD smiles from above and says, "Relax, sweetheart, it's just a bend, not the end!


7] When GOD solves your problems, you have faith in HIS abilities; when GOD doesn't solve your problems, HE has faith in your abilities.


8] A blind person asked St. Anthony: "Can there be anything worse than losing eye sight?" He replied: "Yes, losing your vision!"


9] When you pray for others, God listens to you and blesses them, and sometimes, when you are safe and happy, remember that someone has prayed for you.


10] WORRYING does not take away tomorrow's TROUBLES, it takes away today's PEACE.




(Shared by Woei Ying)

Monday, August 22, 2011

PE 2011

‘The king’s heart is in the hand of the LORD; he directs it like a watercourse wherever he pleases. All a man’s ways seem right to him, but the LORD weighs the heart.’ (Proverbs 21:1-2)


For the first time in Singapore, there is keen interest and enthusiasm in this coming Presidential Election (PE2011). In the past, it was only been contested once. Even then, the disparity in the credentials of the candidates was so apparent that it was more like a walkover. There was hardly any interest on the part of the Singaporeans then, as people viewed such position as merely a political appointment.

This PE2011 which is to be held on this Saturday, is going to be dramatically different. More credible people are coming forward to make this election a watershed in Singapore history, just as the GE2011 did. I am not saying it is going to be a close fight. Rather, these candidates are courageous enough to come forward to stand for the election. Singaporeans also seemed to expect much more from their president this time round. They talked about performing check and balance, guarding our huge foreign reserve, scrutinizes the civil service appointments, and doing more for the disadvantaged and poor etc.

Nevertheless, this transition from political apathy to political consciousness is good for the nation in the long run. Singaporeans would be more engaged in the direction and the shaping of the nation’s future, moving towards a more inclusive and vibrant society. I think our leaders have realized that people wanted to be heard and see the actions. The fact that our government had been generous in issuing four certificates of eligibility is a very good sign. Given the tremendous power of social media today, any grievances not handled properly can be misused or manipulated for the wrong purpose or cause, just like the recent riots in UK. Being a small nation, we can ill-afford such things to happen here.

In the article entitled ‘Winning back public trust after General election” (ST 2/7/11) by our former permanent secretary for finance, Mr Ngiam Tong Dow, he observed that the GE2011 shows some chipping away of the trust that the past generations of Singaporeans had in the government. The founding generation lived frugal lives, seen as selfless men, sacrificing promising careers for an uncertain future in politics. Now with the gap between the highest and the lowest paid becoming excessive, some Singaporeans started to less believe the government acts in their best interest. Younger generation are more unwilling to give the government the benefit of doubt, judge the government more by its actions than its promises. In this aspect, most Singaporeans should be happy with the positive changes taken place so far. Majulah Singapore!

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Facing trials & finding meaning to life

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28)

"There's nothing more calming in difficult moments that knowing there's some one fighting with you." — Mother Teresa


The famous Jew, Victor Frankl, talked about his experiences in a concentration camp in Nazi Germany. When he was brought before the Gestapo, they stripped him naked and then, noticing that he was still wearing his gold wedding ring, one of the soldiers said, "Give it to me." As he removed his ring, this thought went through his mind: "They can take my ring, but there is one thing nobody can take from me - my freedom to choose how I will respond to what happens to me."

On the strength of that, he not only survived the Holocaust, but also developed his whole psychiatric system called Logotherapy, which states that "when you find meaning in everything, then you can face anything." He survived the horrors of the Holocaust because he was sustained by an inner conviction that he would come through it, and be able to use the suffering to good effect. His system of Logotherapy is now being used to help thousands who have mental and emotional problems. It is founded upon the belief that it is the striving to find a meaning in one's life that is the primary, most powerful motivating and driving force in humans.

The following list of tenets represents the basic principles of logotherapy:

• Life has meaning under all circumstances, even the most miserable ones.
• Our main motivation for living is our will to find meaning in life.
• We have freedom to find meaning in what we do, and what we experience, or at least in the stand we take when faced with a situation of unchangeable suffering.

It is clear that same things can happen to individuals, but they have different effects on ones because each person has different responses which depend on his inner attitudes. Hence, harsh blows of life can make the some people bitter whilst in others it has the strengthening and refining effects. So it is not so much what happens to us, but what we do with it that is important. For Christians, we have the additional resources to rely on – the strength and grace from God, and the meaning of life He gives us under His grand purposes on this earth.

Friday, August 12, 2011

Lighter moments

A father was approached by his small son who told him proudly, "I know what the Bible means!"
His father smiled and replied, "What do you mean, you 'know' what the Bible means?
The son replied, "I do know!"
"Okay," said his father. "What does the Bible mean?"
"That's easy, Daddy..." the young boy replied excitedly," It stands for 'Basic Information Before Leaving Earth.”

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A Sunday school teacher was telling her class the story of the Good Samaritan. She asked the class, 'If you saw a person lying on the roadside, all wounded and bleeding, what you would do?' A thoughtful little girl broke the hushed silence, 'I think I'd throw up.'

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There was a very gracious lady who was mailing an old family bible to her brother in another part of the country.
"Is there anything breakable in here?" asked the postal clerk.
"Only the Ten Commandments," answered the lady.

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A minister parked his car in a no-parking zone in a large city because he was short of time and couldn't find a space with a meter.
Then he put a note under the windshield wiper that read: "I have circled the block 10times. If I don't park here, I'll miss my appointment. Forgive us our trespasses."
When he returned, he found a citation from a police officer along with this note "I've circled this block for 10 years. If I don't give you a ticket I'll lose my job. Lead us not into temptation."

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A policeman was taking a vandalism report at an elementary school when he was interrupted by a six year old girl. She looked up and down at his uniform and asked, "Are you a policeman?"
"Yes, I am," he said.
"My mother told me that if I ever needed help I should ask a policeman. Is that right," the girl asked.
"Yes it is," said the policeman.
The girl extended her foot to the policeman and said, "OK, then, would you tie my shoe?"

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Cancer marker test

“Now He is able to do exceeding abundantly beyond all that we ask or think, according to the power that works within us. (Ephesians 3:20)


I saw my medical oncologist yesterday morning. My cancer marker (CA125) in May had risen to 21.9 from 11.6 in February, so I went for the appointment with a heavier heart, only dared to ask God for at least a stable reading. When my doctor told me this time it had came down to 11.4, I was really unprepared for such improvement and good news.

Thanks to many who prayed for me, and for God’s immeasurable grace. I know He keeps me for His purpose. The meaning of Life takes on a new dimension when one goes through hard blows of life.

Friday, August 5, 2011

Blood test

"I'm not sure what the future holds, but I'm absolutely sure who holds the future - H I M!" (Frank Jordan)


Time flies. I had just gone to do my 3-monthly cancer marker test this afternoon so that it will be ready in time for my medical appointment with my oncologist on next Wednesday morning (10th August).

The last three months have been a fruitful time for me. Other than doing my weekly marking of the drug offenders’ bible lessons, I was involved in the church’s children camp in June, and joined a church cell group. Recently through a friend, I was able to share my medical experiences with her friend who has recently undergoing chemo treatments.

Ovarian cancer normally discovers at late stage and there is 75% chance for the patients to relapse in the first 2 years, according to the recent news report of The Straits Times. Nevertheless, may God grant me peace whatever the outcome of my blood test may be.

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

'Addiction'

‘The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning, but the heart of fools is in the house of pleasure.” (Ecclesiastes 7:4)


I happened to have lunch a couple of weeks ago with a good friend of mine. He used to be addicted to share trading where almost every day he would nibble in the market. It later developed into a ‘hobby’, filling up his boredom. This addiction resulted him incurring substantial financial losses, affected his work and family life.

Addiction is defined as being enslaved to a habit or practice. It occurs when we repeated that behaviour often enough that it becomes etched into our brain. There is a legend relays a conversation between a wise old man and his grandson. The old man, explained to the boy, “Inside of me, and inside of every person, a terrible fight is going on between two dogs. One is evil; the other is good. They fight all the time. “The grandson asked, “Which one wins?” His grandfather smiled and replied, “The one I feed.”

In order to win over this ‘monster dog’ in our inner self, we need to break the bad habit and at the same time, to replace it with a good one. Then, one must vow never to feed the mean dog again, and to keep feeding the good one. So when we indulge even a little in our addiction, we are feeding the wrong dog. When we refuse to feed him, he loses his strength.

Below is an excerpt from my student who recently shared his struggle with his drug addiction:

“.....When I fail and fall onto the wrong track, it is my foolishness, it is my sinful nature at work. I’ve been short-sighted and indulge in temporary, meaningless pleasure.....God has warned me but I failed God....Our Heavenly father, please rescue me from my drug addiction, with my own effort I’ve failed so many times. Without your support, I’m weak in front of my foe. Let me hold on to your mighty hand. I will be strong to confront my enemy. Away from me, my deceitful friend. I have my Lord with me, never again will I need your company.”

We are visual, feeling creatures and can be addicted to anything under the sun except God because we can’t feel or see Him. What do we enjoy daydreaming about? What occupies our mind when we have nothing else to think about? Where and what are we spending our money on? It is very easy to be entangled with the affairs of this life because there are just too many attractive things in this world that can satisfy our senses, material or non-material things. They often start as “refuelling” activities but later took up so much of our time, thought, and energy that they become the centre of our life. Family and career were once ‘addictions’ or ‘idols’ in my life and I am grateful that my sickness caused me to learn to strike a balance in life.

I am glad to hear this friend of mine that now he has been able to walk away from his ‘addiction’ after staying away from the stock market for several months. Finally he feels ‘liberated’ from the bondage of that ‘monster’ in his life.